That’s a difficult question. I’ve had a lot of great meals. But I had a perfect one at the end of my run as restaurant critic for The Times in the backyard of Frankies 457 Spuntino in Carroll Gardens, off the clock, with my family and one of my brothers, on a warm spring day when the children were perfectly behaved and everyone was talking and eating and laughing and the breeze kept us cool, and I thought: This is what restaurants are about, sometimes, what they ought to be about more often.
Again, that’s not so easy. I am a terrible cookbook flirt, a dog, a rake. I fall in love so easily. So go look at my copy of The Babbo Cookbook, Mario Batali’s greatest book. You’d think we’d been married a long, long time, and still on date nights and flowers just because. But here’s Let the Flames Begin, by Chris Schelsinger and John Willoughby. I’ve cracked the spine on that one in quite a few places. It’s dirty with the stains of pomegranate molasses, curry powder, pork fat. There’s dried coriander between the pages. Here’s Fannie Farmer, an early love, still worth consulting in times when the only shopping’s grim. Lately, the Lucky Peach cookbook, 101 Easy Asian Recipes. I’ve got to be up near 90 of them done by now. That thing is slick with sesame oil, rank with fish sauce, till death do us part.
I could go a cold navel orange on most breakfasts. But I’m a New Yorker: baconeggncheese on a toasted buttered roll. Eggs over easy. Cut it in half, please, I like the mess.
Is a fried half cow brain served on pumpernickel with raw onion in a St. Louis diner supposed to be good? It was pretty bad.
Depends on the day. I could go a cold navel orange on most of them. But I’m a New Yorker: baconeggncheese on a toasted buttered roll. Eggs over easy. Cut it in half, please, I like the mess.
Nope. I’m like Imelda Marcos was with the shoes. There are perfect restaurants for every occasion in New York City, for every mood. I would never pick one. But I’ll say this: It’s always the one where you want to be, always the one you’ve been to before, where you know what you want, and where you know that it will be the same as it was the time before, and maybe the time before that. It’s the consistent one. That’s why it’s perfect.
Ray Liotta dealing with the Sunday sauce in Goodfellas, ripped on cocaine and paranoia in the hours after dawn, helicopters overhead, guns in a bag in the trunk of the car. “Michael, keep an eye on the sauce.”
Pizza – Fascati’s on Henry Street in Brooklyn Heights.
There are a lot of gods up there in the kitchen on Parnassus. Too many to list.
It’s been gochujang, the Korean hot pepper sauce, for a while now. I’m about ready to move on to something new. Pickled jalapenos are looking strong.
Burning Spear, “Marcus Garvey”. It begins every weekend cooking session and has for a very long time.
Cast-iron pan.
Do it every day, near as you can.
I think I’m about done with the ramps.
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